
Why You Keep Dating The Same Person In A Different Body - And How To Finally Break The Pattern
- E305
- 31:46
- March 30th 2026
Why Do We Keep Repeating The Same Dating Patterns?
This episode of The Love Machine podcast is a must-listen if you've ever wondered why the same dating patterns pop up in every relationship, leaving you scratching your head.
James Preece dives into the world of emotional self-awareness and healthy dating boundaries with Briana Longe and Maya Gusinac, the brilliant minds behind HeyLina.
They reveal why so many women struggle to trust their instincts, break out of old patterns, and distinguish between true connection and fleeting chemistry.
Get ready for thought-provoking chat as they tackle how dating patterns can sabotage relationships, why social comparison kills satisfaction, and how technology like HeyLina is helping women track their dating patterns in real time.
Want to know how to finally become the chooser, not the chosen? Or how to set non-negotiables that actually work? It's all here, and you'll leave with smart tips you can use right away.
Don't miss this honest, smart and engaging discussion about dating patterns – the secret behind relationship success that everyone should understand.
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